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Home > Kiruna & Gareth | Wedstock Festival Theme Jewish Wedding at Holton Lee, Poole

Kiruna & Gareth | Wedstock Festival Theme Jewish Wedding at Holton Lee, Poole

02/07/2013 by Karen

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This is such an awesome wedding on so many levels. First of all, Kiruna’s amazing couture wedding dress is made almost entirely from paper! (mostly with the pages of an old copy of Alice in Wonderland together with that of an erotic novel). Secondly with an actress and a comedian marrying each other the relaxed feeling and originality that shine through this ‘wedstock’ wedding is just fabulous.

Kiruna Stamell, originally from Australia, and Gareth’s paths had crossed a couple of times over the years but as is so often the case, the timing wasn’t right. When a mutual friend re-introduced them in 2011, everything felt like it was meant to be and Gareth proposed to Kiruna after just 4 months.

They meticulously organised a weekend Wedstock wedding that took place in September 2012 complete with a fish ‘n’ chips van, camping, tipis, chill-out tents, a fabulous cake competition, and lots of crafty and DIY details all made by the very talented Kiruna herself!
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Kiruna, the Bride: We wanted a relaxed, bohemian party and Holton Lee, our chosen venue, delivered our festival dreams and then some! Our wedding lasted an entire weekend with guests camping onsite with us. Holton Lee is actually a not-for-profit charity so you’ve got these beautiful camping fields and wonderful facilities but also disability-friendly buildings right next door which was essential as we were hosting several disabled guests who needed accessibility.

THE VENUE + THEME

I wanted a pretty picnic lovely camping theme inspired by my experiences at English music festivals but with more of a civilised touch. I was amazed at how much discrimination I came across when I first started looking for a disability-friendly venue but Honeybells who supplied our romantic and chill-out tents came to the rescue with the suggestion of the beautiful Holton Lee and it ticked all our boxes.

We both wanted a ‘picnic festival’ even ‘Woodstock’ feel. We wanted to create a social / non-wedding / relaxing afternoon during daylight on the Saturday and then we would have this shift as the Sabbath went out at sunset on Saturday evening and it turned into the wedding element of the weekend.

The venue was a godsend and it was wonderful to know that the money we spent was going into their not for profit ethos.

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DIY CREATIVITY

Paper was a massive part of my theme which is why most of my wedding dress was made from paper.

I love the nostalgic element of brown paper packaging and string and as well as collecting lots of it I asked my local cafe to save the coca cola bottles to be my vases on the table and saved loads of money by making all the flowers myself out of paper.

The brown paper was the starting point and I then started collecting recycled scraps of paper in different colours to make festival bunting, and other artefacts in the months leading up to the wedding. The table centres were newspaper-covered K’s and G’s that I also made.


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DRESS

I knew I wanted a wedding dress that was mostly made out of paper. Although it only gets worn once it should be a stunning work of art and the beauty with my paper dress is that I can get it framed and collaged into some kind of artwork which I am shortly going to do. The idea was stolen from the Scottish literary festival where I saw a designer make a dress completely out of paper and I thought WOW. It was also part of our effort to save costs. Alex Wheeler, a stylist friend of mine, very kindly made me the dress as a gift and I provided the material which probably cost me no more than £10.

Alex made a huge bustle of origami paper flowers and the dress itself was literally sewn together on me on top of a paper mâchà© corset. We had been to a second hand bookshop to buy some books for the ‘dress material’ to go together with an old second hand copy of Alice in Wonderland given to me by a friend.

It wasn’t till the big day that I started reading one of the origami flowers and realised it was erotic fiction! So my dress was a mix of Alice in Wonderland mixed with erotic fiction. Not that anyone would have got close enough to realise – it was my little secret.

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CHUPPAH & CEREMONY

Some of Gareth’s cousins built our chuppah and we put fairy lights and decorations around it all. The chuppah has been used at a few family weddings which is lovely and it was a nice feeling to know that the family had helped build it physically and metaphorically.
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I loved the ceremony under the tree full of lanterns and the chuppah and the fairy lights. Every guest was holding a balloon with a little LED light in it and there was something really magical about that and the beautiful vows that Gareth and I had agreed on and composed ourselves.

Gareth choreographed the structure, the songs, and the word smithing of the ceremony, and sung a surprise rendition of Madness’s ‘it must be love’

We took a lot of inspiration from the film True Romance. The song I walked down the aisle to was ‘True Romance’ with David, Gareth’s brother, on the keyboard and Jonny, Gareth’s cousin on guitar.

We had matching wedding rings from Baroque in Brighton. The ring shapes are slightly wonky, not straight and tidy, and that is another of the little details that made us feel like we were doing things that really represented who we were.

FISH & CHIPS

We would have loved a hog roast but of course that was absolutely not kosher. We liked the idea of something self contained and the fish and chip van was a really good solution and there was also some meat alternatives for non-fish eaters.
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DESSERT TABLE

Again great for a budget and one of the best ways to deal with desserts is to have a cake baking competition because people love an opportunity to show off their culinary skills. So many people brought the most incredibly stunning and delicious cakes.

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PHOTOGRAPHY

We thought one of the most important things to spend proper money on was the photography. Andrew was a family friend who is a high end fashion photographer – wedding photography isn’t his bread and butter so it was lovely of home to agree to do our photos.

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ADVICE TO OTHER BRIDES

It is impossible to spend the kind of time with your bridesmaids or guests that you really want to spend time with. Forget that! The day is literally you hosting a party and you should try and work out meaningful contact with people before and after – you will not get it on the day.

Also this is a controversial one, but pick your bridesmaids carefully. Don’t necessarily pick your best friends! If I would have thought about it I would have picked people who were more organised and more likely to take an active role in helping me ‘do’. It’s interesting because I’ve always thought that the bridesmaids should be the women that you want around you on a friendship and supportive basis, but now I look back, they’re more like your production crew! You need to pick your bridesmaids for that reason – not necessarily the people that you like the best!
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KIRUNA + GARETH’S LITTLE WHITE BOOK

Venue — Holton Lee
Photography — Andrew Firth
Bride’s dress — Alex Wheeler
Fish N Chips — Long Johns Fish and Chips Dorset
Luxury Tents — Honeybells

Thank you to the amazing Kiruna and Gareth for sharing their beautiful wedding and all their creative DIY budget-friendly ideas. I love Kiruna’s ‘paper’ theme – it’s so different and so creative. What an inspiration!

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Filed Under: Jewish Rustic Weddings, Jewish Wedstival Weddings, Jewish Christian Weddings, Real Jewish Weddings, Jewish Budget Weddings, Jewish DIY Weddings, Jewish Interfaith Weddings Tagged With: Paper wedding dress, Red, Poole Wedding, Jewish Wedding, rustic wedding, wedding, UK, DIY, Holton Lee Wedding Venue, DIY chuppah, DIY wedding, fashion, Kiruna Stamell, Festival theme Jewish wedding, Holton Lee wedding, Jewish Wedstock Weddings

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About Karen

Loves great design, cityscapes, berry cocktails, and the word “yes”. Founder and editor of Smashing The Glass. Follow me @SmashingTheGlass

Comments

  1. Kiruna Stamell says

    02/07/2013 at 9:39 pm

    Reblogged this on Kiruna Stamell and commented:
    Here’s our wedding, lovingly blogged by Gareth’s cousin, Karen, who has her own blog, ‘Smashing The Glass’. Thanks you Karen for giving our wedding such a wonderful write-up.

  2. sharonmcgoey says

    29/08/2013 at 8:44 am

    Stunning wedding and brilliant tips. I’ve been asked to be my friend’s bridesmaid… Will take on board that I should be part of the production crew, not just a dress trailing after the bride!

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