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Home > How to handle overwhelm + stress during wedding planning {with Howard Cooper and Blake Ezra}

How to handle overwhelm + stress during wedding planning {with Howard Cooper and Blake Ezra}

16/05/2019 by Karen Cinnamon


Planning a wedding is exciting, there’s no question about that. But it can also be stressful – from dealing with family drama and pressure along the way to feeling less than comfortable being the center of attention on the big day, there are so many elements that can be anxiety-provoking.

Usually we focus on the fun and meaningful aspects of a wedding, and while those are always front of mind for us, the truth is there are a lot of difficult issues wedding planning can bring out (and that’s one of the big reasons why I started Smashing The Glass’s bride-to-be community, Brides Club – a safe space for everyone to be open and honest about the real ups and downs of the engaged life.). 

Meaningful conversations, and talking about mental health and weddings are so important – and that’s what I’m so excited to be chatting live with one of my favorite Jewish wedding photographers, and Smashing The Glass Recommended Vendor Blake Ezra, and Howard Cooper, one of Britain’s leading rapid change therapists, all about dealing with wedding anxiety.

Known for helping people to create rapid shifts in their thinking, Howard’s rapid change approach rejects the notion that deep and lasting change needs to take a long time. Drawing on a variety of psychological tools, Howard has supported thousands of individuals over the past 15 years on an international level, bringing about transformational changes to their lives. A specialist in helping people tackle fears and phobias, Howard uses a practical, dynamic and innovative approach to help people from all walks of life and ages.

With over 150 Jewish weddings under his belt (many of which have appeared here on Smashing The Glass) plus a BA (Hons) in Hebrew and Jewish Studies, Blake has a deep understanding of the traditions and rituals of a Jewish wedding and the ways brides, grooms, and families tend to respond to the unique dynamics a Jewish (or Jew-ish) wedding can bring out.

Together, these two are absolutely the dream duo for tackling this topic, which admittedly isn’t always the easiest to address.

Blake and Howard will be chatting with me live on our Smashing The Glass Facebook page this Monday, 20 May, all about wedding anxiety and how you can keep it from getting in the way of having the time of your life. We’ll be chatting in real time, so you can ask Blake, Howard, and me anything you want during our live broadcast, or you can submit a question in advance by emailing karen@smashingtheglass.com

Click ‘INTERESTED’ or ‘GOING’ here to be notified just before we go live!

Tune in this Monday 20 May 2019, at 8:00 pm BST (that’s 3:00 pm EDT and 12:00 PDT) to facebook.com/smashingtheglass for the live show.

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