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Home > 31 Top Tips For an Awesome Jewish Wedding

31 Top Tips For an Awesome Jewish Wedding

10/08/2017 by Karen


Last month I set myself the challenge of posting one Jewish wedding tip by video, every single day on the Smashing The Glass Facebook page. It amounted to 31 two-minute tip videos of me talking about everything from killer wedding shoes to how to get the best out of your wedding vendors, to how to get that amazing ‘crush’ sound when you smash the glass, to the importance of keeping your family happy to literally EVERY fantastic wedding tip under the sun chuppah!

As of today (August 10, 2017), the videos have collectively been viewed well over 10,00 times, so there must have been a few nuggets in there! As such, I thought it would be a good idea to post them all here for you to enjoy in one place. 

Let me know which one’s your favorite? Happy Planning!


Tip #1 Incorporate meaningful things into your wedding


Tip #2 Don’t try to please everyone


Tip #3 Don’t invite too many people


Tip #4 Don’t follow the crowd


Tip #5 Try and experience the pure and sacred side of a Jewish wedding as much as possible

(as the spiritual significance is often lost in all the madness of putting it together)


Tip #6 Ask someone to specifically lead the Israeli dancing


Tip #7 Have a mobile phone-free ‘unplugged’ ceremony


Tip #8 Have the bride make a speech

 ..and the maids of honor — and the bride’s mom — have a ‘Women’s Wedding Takeover! (See this post for more about bride’s making speeches)


Tip #9 Create a program explaining all of the Jewish traditions

This is a great idea to make Jewish and non-Jewish guests alike feel included. See this post for everything you need to know about making a Jewish wedding program)


Tip #10 Enjoy the ‘hora’


Tip #11 How to make your guests feel extra special


Tip #12 Let’s talk Wedding Shoes!

More about that tip here!


Tip #13 Take the time to be calm and in the moment on your day


Tip #14 An awesome creative idea for your drinks reception!


Tip #15 The ‘correct’ processional order for a Jewish wedding ceremony


Tip #16 How to make your loved ones feel extra special during your Jewish wedding ceremony


Tip #17 How to make your loved ones feel extra special during your party


Tip #18 The importance of keeping your family happy


Tip #19 Avoiding ‘Analysis Paralysis’


Tip #20 Pick wedding vendors who are as emotionally invested in your wedding as you are
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Tip #21 Make the most of the weather, whatever it may be.. and use the weather as a photo prop too!


Tip #22 Dance to the songs that bring you the most joy


Tip #23 If you really love your vendor, one of the greatest gifts you can give them is THIS


Tip #24 How to get an amazing ‘crunch’ noise when you smash the glass


Tip #25 How to create a creative and meaningful chuppah canopy


Tip #26 Take a few selfies! (But other than that, put your phone away)


Tip #27 Have a special moment with each of your parents


Tip #28 Prioritize prioritize prioritize!


Tip #29 Be a team throughout the entire process
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Tip #30 Have a creative guest book that will get guests chatting and mingling!


Tip #31 My final wedding tip — it’s an important one


Top Image: Madalyn & Aaron’s New York Jewish Wedding by Photo Pink

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