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The Ultimate Balancing Act: Motherhood and Work

08/03/2018 by Karen

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My two worlds — image by John Nassari

Today is International Women’s Day and it seems the perfect moment to write a personal post that I’ve been wanting to compose for a very long time:

One of my favourite vendors here at Smashing The Glass is the photographer John Nassari. He has taken some of the most beautiful wedding photographs I’ve ever seen but he has other strings to his photography bow. His latest project is ‘Alters’, a series of images which, with some clever editing, explores different aspects of an individual’s personality.

When John asked me if I would be willing to sit for him I was delighted but I couldn’t think what my alter ego might be or how my personality might be split. And then I realised that as a working mother, I exist almost all the time in two separate headspaces, always navigating two different worlds, divided between my family and business.

This is what John captured in his portrait. Here I am, on one hand a businesswoman: smartly dressed, high heels, make up, ready to take on the world with my independence and ideas. On the other hand, I’m a mother: dressed for practicalities, juggling the demands of two small people who are completely dependent on me.

But John’s captured something else.

Work Me is facing towards Family Me and smiling, while, simultaneously, my body is turned away from them, angled towards the window and the world outside. It’s like I’m in constant conflict with myself, twisting in every direction to keep all the plates spinning at once.

I began my business on maternity leave, a way of keeping my brain ticking while I was looking after a baby and I developed it to fit around family life. I wanted the two aspects of my life to sit happily alongside each other but, in reality, it is so easy to get sucked into one thing or the other. The trick is juggling the two.

Today is International Women’s Day and right now is an interesting time to be a woman: the Harvey Weinstein scandal, ♯Me Too, ♯Time’s Up, equal pay discussions at the BBC, the centenary of (some) women winning the right to vote. This is a big moment for the possibility of gender equality, a time of evaluation and change. And yet, I can’t help thinking the concept of juggling childcare and work is still mainly an issue for women rather more than it is for men.

My husband is a brilliant hands-on dad but does he consider himself to be juggling the different parts of his life? I’m not so sure. When men choose a job or a career, how often do they consider whether it will fit in around family life? How many choose to work from home or part-time so that they can pick the kids up from school, or stay with them when they’re sick, or just spend some time with them each day?

I’m not saying men don’t do all these things. I’m just wondering how many factor it into their life choices. Here at Smashing The Glass we speak to lots of couples who think really hard about gender equality in their marriage ceremony, tinker with the traditions of our very own patriarchal religion to bring the proceedings up to date. But I wonder how many of us take that sensibility through to what, for many, is the next rite of passage — having children.

The truth is, I’m not two separate people. I am not Family Me and Work Me. I’m not the sum of two elements but many. And those elements are mixed up and blurred and fuzzy at the edges. The most challenging aspect of juggling motherhood and work is actually the lack of separation between the two.Continue ReadingContinue Reading

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Juggling motherhood with running a business from home

18/12/2014 by Karen

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My life–both work and personal–has changed so much in the past couple of years with the appearance of my darling daughter, Sacha, now 13 months old, and the birth of the fast-growing  Smashing  The Glass, just 18 short months ago. I’ve had to strive for a gold medal in  multi-tasking whilst also trying to instil some semblance of balance in my life. And when you work from home, your productivity in all areas is both accelerated  and impeded.

I define myself as a: Wife, Mother, Daughter, Career-Woman, Blogger, Designer, and Adorer of Wonderful People In My Life. With each of those identities comes responsibilities and duties, but  most importantly I’m also blessed to say that they come with a hell of a lot of  fun and fulfilment!  At the grand old age of 39 (yes I turned the big 40-minus-one a couple of months ago), and with the birth of Sacha, I feel like I’ve designed a life where I revel in  every minute and  am surrounded by, and immersed in,  people and  projects I love.

In all honesty  I’m exhausted most of the time but I  also feel extremely privileged  to  have such a satisfying  career and home  life. I know that my daughter will only be little for so long, and I am lucky to get to spend the extra time with her that I do.  I  have part-time child-care but  I’m running  a full-time business so it’s a constant juggle and shifting of priorities. I’m often working around the clock, in the evenings  once  Sacha  is in bed, on weekends whilst  she’s  napping, and pretty much anytime I’m waiting, walking or  watching TV  thanks to my multitude of Apple gadgets.

Karen Cinnamon

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