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Dates in 2021, 2022 and 2023 to avoid for a Jewish wedding plus a 12 Month Wedding Planning Monthly Checklist

09/01/2015 by Karen

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Mazal Tov on your engagement! There’s so much to do before the big day that it’s nice to have it all condensed into one neat checklist. I’ve laid out the biggest tasks that need to be taken care of in chronological order further down the page, but first thing’s first – you need to pick a date! 

DATES TO AVOID FOR A JEWISH WEDDING IN 2021, 2022 + 2023

Below you can see all the dates that should be avoided for your Jewish wedding in 2021, 2022 and 2023, according to the Jewish calendar.


Jewish Wedding dates to avoid in 2021


Avoid Purim: 25th February 2021 (from sunset) — 26th February 2021

Avoid from Passover: (27th March 2021 [from sunset] to 4th April 2021) to Shavuot: (16th May 2021 [from sunset] to 18th May 2021). Traditionally, no Jewish weddings take place between Passover and Shavuot except on Lag B’ Omer (that’s the date I chose for my wedding in 2013!) which in 2021 falls on 30th April (from sunset) to 1st May 2021.

Avoid the 3 weeks leading up to and including Tisha B’av: 27th June 2021 (from sunset) to 18th July 2021. Jewish marriages are not allowed during the period of three weeks leading up and including to the Fast of Tisha B’av.

Avoid Rosh Hashana: 6th September (from sunset) to 8th September 2021

Avoid Yom Kippur: 15th September (from sunset) to 16th September 2021

Avoid Succot: 20th September (from sunset) to 27th September 2021

Avoid Simchat Torah: 28th September (from sunset) to 29th September 2021


Jewish Wedding dates to avoid in 2022


Avoid Purim: 16th March (sunset) – 17th March 2022

Avoid from Passover: 15th April (sunset) – 23rd April 2022. Traditionally, no Jewish weddings take place between Passover and Shavuot except on Lag B’ Omer (that’s the date I chose for my wedding in 2013!) which in 2022 falls on 19th May (from sunset) to 20th May 2022

Avoid the 3 weeks leading up to and including Tisha B’av: 17th July (from sunset) to 7th August 2022. Jewish marriages are not allowed during the period of three weeks leading up and including to the Fast of Tisha B’av

Avoid Rosh Hashana: 25th September (from sunset) to 27th September 2022

Avoid Yom Kippur: 4th October (from sunset) to 5th October 2022

Avoid Succot: 9th October (from sunset) to 16th October 2022

Avoid Simchat Torah: 28th October (from sunset) to 29th October 2022


Jewish Wedding dates to avoid in 2023


Avoid Purim: 6th March (sunset) – 8th March

Avoid from Passover:  5th April (sunset) – 13th April. Traditionally, no Jewish weddings take place between Passover and Shavuot except on Lag B’ Omer (that’s the date I chose for my wedding in 2013!) which in 2023 falls on 8th May (from sunset) to 9th May 2023

Avoid the 3 weeks leading up to and including Tisha B’av: 6th July (from sunset) to 27th July 2023. Jewish marriages are not allowed during the period of three weeks leading up and including to the Fast of Tisha B’av

Avoid Rosh Hashana: 15th September (from sunset) to 17th September 2023

Avoid Yom Kippur: 24th September (from sunset) to 25th September 2023

Avoid Succot: 29th September (from sunset) to 6th October 2023

Avoid Simchat Torah:  6th October (from sunset) to 8th October 2023

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 12 Month Wedding Planning Monthly Checklist

So now you are in the know about dates, let’s lay out the biggest tasks that need to be taken care of in chronological order. I’ve used a 12 month timeline as that’s the length of the average UK and USA engagement. It’s just a guide obviously – I myself only had 6 months to plan my wedding and others will have a lot longer.

9-12 months before the wedding

  • Create a wedding folder and a Pinterest board and start collating ideas for the style of your wedding that appeals to you.
  • Determine your budget and work out how expenses will be divided.
  • Reserve a date (see Jewish wedding dates to avoid at the bottom of the post) and send out a save the date. This could be beautifully designed card or e-card and set the tone for your event, or it could be a simple beautifully worded email.
  • Start to envision your ceremony. Do you want it to be long and symbolic or short and sweet? Do you want to include all the traditions or just a select few?
  • If you have a particular rabbi in mind, book him or her once you’ve decided on a date. If you haven’t got one in mind, find a rabbi or officiant who suits your style and spirit.
  • Start a guest list and work out an idea of the number of guests you’ll have as this will generate the most accurate cost estimates.
  • Brainstorm ceremony and reception ideas and book a venue.
  • Decide on whether you want a wedding planner, and if you do, hire one.
  • Research photographers, videographers and entertainment. The really good ones can get booked up early so be sure to commit when you find a supplier you love.
  • Ensure that any band or DJ you book plays Jewish wedding music.
  • Research caterers and decide if it’s important for you to have a kosher menu or a non-meat ‘Jewish friendly’ ‘inoffensive’ menu.
  • Start thinking about your wedding dress and enjoy the experience of shopping and finding your dress! WEDDING-PLANNING-TIMELINE-2

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